The Secrets of SACRED SEXUALITY & How To Practice It! [7 Tantra Tips]

Christina Lopes, DPT, MPH45 minutes read

Sacred sexuality is a magical and spiritual practice that uses sexual energy to connect with the divine, focusing on deep merging and connection rather than orgasm. Honoring the body, choosing the right partner, and practicing self-care are crucial for engaging in sacred sex, which aims to bridge the gap between spirit and matter for peak spiritual experiences.

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  • Sacred sexuality involves using sexual energy to connect with the divine or universe, aiming to bridge the gap between spirit and matter for a deeper connection, transcending regular self-gratification to merge with higher states of consciousness and intimacy.
  • Clearing societal shame and negative beliefs around the body is crucial for engaging in sacred sexuality, with self-honoring practices like self-care, choosing the right partner, dropping walls for authenticity, and establishing openness and connection solo before sharing with a partner being essential steps for a fulfilling experience.

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Exploring Sacred Sexuality for Spiritual Connection

  • Sacred sexuality is a magical and spiritual practice that differs from regular sex.
  • It can be practiced solo or with a partner, with no need for a relationship.
  • Learning to practice sacred sexuality solo is crucial before sharing it with others.
  • Sacred sexuality originates from the ancient tradition of tantra, which offers solo and partnered paths.
  • Sacred sexuality involves using sexual energy to connect with the divine or universe.
  • Tantra views everything, including the body and sex, as sacred and capable of spiritual connection.
  • The body is considered holy and sacred in sacred sexuality, contrary to many religious traditions.
  • Sacred sexuality aims to bridge the gap between spirit and matter, allowing for a deeper connection with the divine.
  • Sacred sexuality can lead to peak experiences, transcending human form and connecting with the universe.
  • Sacred sex is not meant to judge or replace regular sex but offers a different way of using sexual energy for spiritual connection.

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"Transcending through Sacred Sexuality: A Deep Connection"

  • Sacred sex differs from regular sex as it is not focused on self-gratification, but on merging with higher states of consciousness and intimacy.
  • In sacred sex, the goal is not solely orgasm, but rather transcending to deeper levels of merging and connection with oneself, a partner, or the divine.
  • Sacred sex involves a deep level of bonding, including energetic bonding through chakras docking with a partner, leading to a spiritual connection.
  • Energy movement is a key aspect of sacred sex, with sexual energy consciously moving up the body, unlike in regular sex where energy is often localized in the genital area.
  • Ecstatic orgasms in sacred sex are a result of consciously moving and amplifying energy, leading to explosive, full-body experiences that are distinct from regular sex.
  • Sacred sex sessions can last hours, allowing for the movement of energy and ecstatic orgasms, with practitioners taught to contain orgasmic energy within themselves for amplification.
  • Through sacred sex, individuals can access expanded states of consciousness, going beyond self-gratification to connect deeply with the divine or a partner, leading to altered states of consciousness.
  • Honoring oneself is foundational in sacred sex, as negative judgments about the body can hinder the ability to engage in sacred sexuality and connect with higher states of consciousness.

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Embracing Divine Beauty: Clearing Body Shame

  • The divine views individuals as beautiful and perfect divine beings, free from any flaws in the eyes of God or source.
  • Seeing faults in oneself, particularly regarding sacred sexuality or body image, creates a barrier to experiencing the fullness of sacred sexuality.
  • A mantra is provided to help cleanse any negative beliefs or shame surrounding one's body and sexuality.
  • Women, in particular, face societal shame around sexual energy, making it crucial to clear religious and cultural templates that cast judgment on the body.
  • A healing mantra is offered to clear any templates that dishonor or demean the body, addressing religious and cultural influences.
  • Unrealistic standards imposed by society, especially on women and men's bodies, lead to feelings of inadequacy and dishonor towards one's own body.
  • Clearing these templates through prayer or mantra is essential to establishing a healthy relationship with one's body for sacred sexuality.
  • Honoring the body through self-care practices like healthy eating, rest, and exercise is emphasized as crucial for preparing for sacred sex.
  • Choosing the right partner who shares the same level of consciousness and interest in sacred sexuality is vital for a fulfilling experience.
  • Dropping walls and embracing authenticity is highlighted as essential for sacred sexuality, as it requires complete openness and vulnerability without masks or barriers.

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"Embracing Sacred Sexuality: Connecting with Divine"

  • To engage in sacred sexuality, one must be open and willing to be seen without shame or masks.
  • Prior to engaging in sacred sexuality with a partner, it is essential to work on being fully open and connected solo.
  • Intending to connect with God, source, or a partner is crucial for entering the sacredness of sexuality.
  • Anointing oneself or a partner with oil, water, or sacred Ash symbolizes the intention to connect and creates a sacred space.
  • Eye gazing, a common practice in tantra, is a powerful way to connect with a partner or oneself.
  • Engaging all senses, particularly touch and eyes, is vital in sacred sexuality to move Kundalini energy and create a union with the divine.
  • Mindful foreplay is emphasized in sacred sexuality as a crucial aspect that can last hours to cultivate energy and connection.
  • Moving energy up consciously during sacred sex sessions amplifies the energy and can lead to higher states of consciousness.
  • Nesting post-sacred sex is essential for staying connected with a partner or oneself, especially for feminine energy to feel safe and secure.
  • Communication, touch, and staying connected after sex are key components of nesting and cultivating sexual energy in sacred sexuality.

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"Exploring Sacred Sexuality: Free Workbook & Meditations"

  • The video delves into exploring deeper levels of sexual energy and encourages viewers to share their experiences with sacred sexuality in the comments section. It also prompts them to download a free workbook related to the video content, subscribe to the YouTube channel, access free guided meditations on the website, and continue watching related videos.
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