Why Narcissists Love Borderline Women and Why They Hate Them Back
Prof. Sam Vaknin・2 minutes read
The speaker delves into the dynamics of relationships between narcissists and borderlines, discussing concepts of mortification, emotional needs, and self-destructive behaviors. Borderline individuals and narcissists engage in toxic partnerships to experience pain, mortification, and a sense of aliveness, often reenacting unresolved conflicts to feel alive.
Insights
- Narcissists are attracted to borderline individuals for their ability to provoke mortification and emotional responses, leading to a complex dynamic of emotional manipulation and aggression.
- Borderline individuals engage in self-destructive behaviors and toxic relationships with narcissists as a way to negate their own existence and reenact unresolved conflicts, creating a cycle of pain and emotional intensity in their interactions.
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Recent questions
Why do narcissists love borderlines?
They seek emotional intensity and potential for mortification.
How do narcissists cope with mortification?
By deflating themselves or seeking revenge.
What is the relationship between narcissistic mortification and romantic jealousy?
They involve different emotional triggers and responses.
Why do borderline individuals engage in self-destructive behaviors?
To negate boundaries and avoid being present.
What are the consequences of toxic relationships between narcissists and borderlines?
Borderline individuals may struggle with existence and intense dissociation.
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