Valentines Day Special
Nogorge・16 minutes read
Violet and Gottmik discuss outfits, love languages, relationships, and personal experiences, sharing their views on love, acceptance, and authenticity in the queer community post-transition. They emphasize the importance of embracing one's true self and celebrating love and romance on Valentine's Day through strategic outfit choices that reflect their emotional vulnerabilities and level of interest.
Insights
- Violet and Gottmik have differing love languages, with Violet valuing touch and gifts while Gottmik appreciates acts of service and verbal compliments.
- Both Violet and Gottmik advocate for open relationships founded on trust and communication, emphasizing the importance of accepting each other's flaws in true love and valuing emotional vulnerability in their bond.
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Recent questions
What outfits did Violet and Gottmik wear for Valentine's Day?
Violet wore a Marco Marco outfit, and Gottmik donned a custom influencer dress with shoulder pads.
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Summary
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Valentine's Day Outfits and Love Languages
- Violet and Gottmik discuss their outfits for Valentine's Day, with Violet wearing a Marco Marco outfit and Gottmik in a custom influencer dress with shoulder pads.
- Violet mentions losing her Paco Bon jewelry after being robbed by a Postmates delivery person, leading to backlash on social media.
- They talk about their love languages, with Violet emphasizing touching and gifts, while Gottmik values acts of service and verbal compliments.
- They reminisce about their high school experiences, with Violet being a popular figure and Gottmik having a boyfriend dropped off by his mom.
- Gottmik talks about transitioning and experiencing a "whole phase" as himself for the first time.
- They discuss their interactions with men, with Gottmik being more aggressive and top-like, while Violet enjoys being treated like a princess.
- They express their views on relationships, with both leaning towards open relationships based on trust and communication.
- They debate the concept of love at first sight versus lust, with both agreeing that true love involves accepting each other's flaws.
- They share their love for each other and discuss the importance of seeing each other's emotional vulnerabilities.
- The conversation shifts to strategic outfit choices for dates, with both agreeing that their outfits reflect their level of interest in the situation.
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"Personal Style Choices and Queer Identity"
- The individual discusses their personal style choices, including considerations about their appearance, such as filled-in brows, hair, and underwear selection for different occasions like going to the gym or a potential date.
- They reflect on their experience in the queer community post-transition, expressing a newfound sense of identity and the absence of the option to live stealthily, emphasizing the importance of embracing one's true self and celebrating love and romance on Valentine's Day.
