Feel Them Pulling Away? - AVOID THIS MISTAKE!
Aaron Doughty・10 minutes read
When someone pulls away, chasing them only pushes them further due to energy dynamics; giving space allows for self-realization and positive outcomes. Focusing on self-worth, letting go of attachment, and using techniques like the Frame Technique can shift relationship dynamics and signal readiness for healthier connections.
Insights
- Trying to control or fix a situation when someone is pulling away can push them further due to energy dynamics, leading to feelings of suffocation and the desire for space.
- Focusing on self-worth, giving space when needed, and utilizing techniques like the Frame Technique can shift relationship dynamics positively, signaling readiness for a healthy connection where you are chosen, not dependent on others' actions.
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Recent questions
How can I prevent pushing someone away?
By giving them space and focusing on yourself.
Why is it important to focus on oneself in relationships?
To establish healthy dynamics and self-worth.
What is the Frame Technique?
A tool to bring energy back to oneself.
How can I show the universe I am ready for a healthy relationship?
By letting go of attachment and feeling secure in oneself.
Why is giving space important in relationships?
To allow individuals to come to their own conclusions.
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Summary
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"Letting Go: The Power of Space"
- Trying to pull someone back when they are pulling away actually pushes them further away due to energy dynamics.
- The natural inclination is to chase someone who is walking away, but this only repels them more.
- People feel energetically when you are trying to control or fix a situation, leading them to feel suffocated and wanting more space.
- Giving someone space when they pull away allows them to come to their own conclusions and potentially realize their feelings for you.
- The key is to focus on yourself, stop sending energy to the other person, and let go if they are pulling away.
- Choosing yourself and valuing your own worthiness is crucial in relationships, as it reflects in how others treat you.
- Letting go of attachment and feeling safe in your own body signals to the universe that you are ready for a relationship where you are chosen.
- Understand that your worthiness is not dependent on others' actions or choices, and giving space can lead to positive outcomes.
- The Frame Technique is a powerful tool to bring energy back to yourself and change dynamics in your life, helping you detach from others' opinions and energy.
