A Powerful Technique To Seduce & Influence Anyone: Robert Greene

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Seduction involves influencing subtly and indirectly, focusing on making others feel pleasure and excitement. A great Seducer is outer-directed, attentive to others' needs, engaging in a back-and-forth courtship game to avoid coming off as dominating or preachy.

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  • Seduction involves subtlety and indirectness to influence others without their awareness, focusing on creating pleasure and excitement to lower resistance and subtly influence.
  • Warm Seducers engage in a mutual courtship game, emphasizing the other person's needs and desires, while vulnerability, not insecurity, opens the door to connection and influence by being open to healing and influence from others.

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  • What is the essence of seduction?

    Seduction involves subtlety, indirect influence, and creating pleasure.

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The Power of Seduction: Influence Through Subtlety

  • Seduction is a powerful form of influence where subtlety and indirectness can lead people to do what you want without realizing it.
  • The key to being a great Seducer lies in making others feel pleasure and excitement, lowering their resistance to your ideas, and influencing them subtly.
  • A great Seducer is outer-directed, focusing on the other person's needs, desires, and individuality, absorbing and reflecting back their spirit.
  • Cold Seducers dominate, while warm Seducers engage in a back-and-forth courtship game, avoiding moralizing and preaching.
  • Insecurity is anti-seductive, but vulnerability can be seductive, as it opens one up to influence and connection with others.
  • Vulnerability in seduction is about being open to another's influence, allowing oneself to be influenced and healed, while insecurity stems from self-absorption and creates awkwardness in interactions.
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