3 Beautiful Behaviors That Make Him Addicted to You | Relationship Advice for Women by Mat Boggs
Mat Boggs・9 minutes read
Addictive behavior in humans can be triggered by a formula outlined in 'Hooked' and utilized by various industries, while men can become addicted to relationships through fun, investment, and rewards, ultimately creating a feedback loop that increases desire and value in the relationship.
Insights
- Creating a feeling of fun, encouraging investment, and providing rewards are key behaviors that can make a man addicted to a relationship, increasing desire and value.
- Variable rewards, alongside fun and investment, can significantly enhance a man's desire for a relationship, creating a feedback loop that boosts addiction.
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Recent questions
How can I make someone addicted to me?
By creating fun, encouraging investment, and providing rewards.
What behaviors can make a man desire more interactions?
Fun, investment, and rewards increase desire for interactions.
What are the key elements that increase a man's desire for relationships?
Fun, investment, and rewards are key elements.
How can I enhance a man's desire for a relationship?
By providing variable rewards, fun, and investment.
How can I create a feedback loop to increase a man's addiction to a relationship?
By understanding and implementing fun, investment, and rewards.
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Summary
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Creating Addictive Relationships: Fun, Investment, Rewards
- The addictive behavior in humans can be triggered by a predictive formula, as outlined in the book 'Hooked', which casinos, video games, and social media have utilized successfully.
- Three behaviors can make a man addicted to you: creating a feeling of fun, encouraging investment in the relationship, and providing rewards.
- Men are drawn to relationships that feel good, with fun being a key element that increases their desire for more interactions.
- Investment in a relationship leads to higher value and desire, with standards acting as opportunities for a man to invest and thus value the relationship more.
- Rewards, including psychological and emotional ones like validation and appreciation, create a pleasure loop that increases a man's desire for more interactions.
- Variable rewards, given unexpectedly, can further enhance a man's desire for the relationship, alongside fun and investment.
- By understanding and implementing these behaviors, you can create a feedback loop that increases a man's addiction to the relationship.
