Unmasking the abuser | Dina McMillan | TEDxCanberra
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The speaker, with 20 years of experience in domestic violence, emphasizes the preventability of abuse by recognizing early warning signs and educating women on abusers' manipulative tactics. Abusers use coercive control tactics to gain power, leading to a suffocating system where victims struggle to say no, highlighting the importance of empowering women with knowledge and taking a collective stand against abuse.
Insights
- Early recognition of warning signs in relationships is crucial to prevent domestic violence, with the potential to empower individuals, especially women, to avoid abusive situations.
- Understanding the intricate tactics of psychological manipulation used by abusers, such as coercion and control, is essential in combating domestic violence and protecting victims from falling into harmful relationships.
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Recent questions
How long has the speaker worked in domestic violence?
20 years
What percentage of women worldwide experience physical or sexual assault?
33%
How many victims and abusers did the speaker interview?
2,500 victims and 630 abusers
What is coercive control in abusive relationships?
Suffocating control by abusers
How can women protect themselves from abusive relationships?
Learn warning signs in two hours
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Summary
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Preventing Domestic Violence: Signs and Solutions
- The speaker has worked in domestic violence for 20 years, finding it challenging but rewarding.
- In 2006, the speaker almost quit due to feeling stuck in a cycle of no progress.
- The speaker, a social psychologist, had in-depth interviews with over 2,500 victims and 630 abusers.
- Most domestic violence is preventable as abusive relationships show signs early on.
- Teen girls and women can learn warning signs in two hours to avoid abusive relationships.
- The World Health Organization estimates 1 in 3 women worldwide experience physical or sexual assault.
- Coercive control is a suffocating system where abusers control every aspect of their partner's life.
- Abusers use tactics to gain and maintain control, with a risk of women getting stuck in these relationships.
- Abusers confided in the speaker, revealing their twisted and entitled mindset towards relationships.
- Abusers use psychological manipulation tactics like grooming to gain control and influence their victims.
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Empowering Women Against Abusers: A Call to Action
- Many women struggle to say no to abusers due to fear of hurting feelings, pressure from friends and family, and the abuser's manipulation tactics like bribes and guilt-tripping. Abusers often persist despite rejection, aiming to wear down victims. Empowering women with knowledge of abusers' tactics is crucial for protection, urging all, including social educators and law enforcement, to educate themselves. Taking a stand against abuse is essential, with a call to action to collectively reduce the number of women in abusive relationships.
