How to make stress your friend | Kelly McGonigal | TED

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Changing one's perspective on stress from harmful to helpful can reduce the risk of negative health outcomes, as evidenced by various studies on stress response and resilience. Embracing stress as a natural response that can promote courage, connection, and resilience may be more beneficial than trying to avoid it altogether.

Insights

  • Viewing stress as harmful increases the risk of mortality by 43%, as highlighted by the study discussed.
  • Embracing stress as a natural response that can foster courage and connection, along with caring for others, can enhance resilience and counteract its negative effects, promoting a healthier mindset towards stress management.

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Recent questions

  • Is stress always harmful?

    No

  • How can mindset affect stress response?

    Mindset can alter stress response.

  • What hormone is released during stress?

    Oxytocin

  • How can caring for others mitigate stress?

    Caring for others can reduce stress effects.

  • What is advised for handling stress?

    Pursue meaning and trust oneself.

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Summary

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"Changing mindset on stress promotes resilience"

  • The speaker, a health psychologist, confesses to changing his perspective on stress after a study on its effects.
  • A study tracked 30,000 adults in the US for 8 years, finding that those who believed stress was harmful had a 43% increased risk of dying.
  • People who experienced stress but didn't view it as harmful had the lowest risk of dying, challenging the belief that stress is universally harmful.
  • Changing how one thinks about stress can alter the body's response to stress, as shown in a study at Harvard University.
  • Participants taught to view stress responses as helpful had healthier physical stress responses, similar to moments of joy and courage.
  • Oxytocin, released during stress, motivates seeking support and strengthens the cardiovascular system, promoting stress resilience.
  • A study on 1,000 adults found that caring for others counteracted the negative effects of stress, creating resilience and reducing the risk of dying.
  • Choosing to view stress as a means to access courage and connect with others can transform one's experience of stress and promote resilience.
  • Pursuing meaning in life and trusting oneself to handle stress is advised over avoiding discomfort, emphasizing the importance of mindset in dealing with stress.
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