Doormat Covert Narcissist Turns Primary Psychopath
Prof. Sam Vaknin・2 minutes read
Covert narcissists can transition into primary psychopaths under stress, manipulation, or rejection, exhibiting a range of manipulative behaviors. Their lack of true self and ability to switch between states can lead to dysfunctional relationships and internal conflict.
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- Covert narcissists can transform into different personality disorders within cluster B under adverse circumstances, such as becoming a primary psychopath or classic narcissist due to stress or rejection.
- Covert narcissists exhibit self-destructive and passive-aggressive behaviors, resorting to feigning indifference and adopting people-pleasing strategies to avoid abuse, leading to a constant state of loss and a sense of control through reframing situations.
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Recent questions
How do covert narcissists react to stress?
Covert narcissists can transform into primary psychopaths when faced with stress, humiliation, rejection, or abandonment. This transformation occurs due to their inability to extract narcissistic supply, leading to a shift in behavior under adverse circumstances.
What distinguishes covert narcissists from borderline individuals?
Covert narcissists share similarities with borderline personality but have unique features like pseudo humility and shape-shifting. While both may exhibit psychopathic behaviors under stress, covert narcissists tend to adopt a people-pleasing persona and experience life as a constant state of loss.
What defense mechanisms do covert narcissists employ?
Covert narcissists use defense mechanisms like feigning indifference, numbness, and colluding in their own mistreatment to maintain a facade of control and self-destruction. They may adopt passive-aggressive and self-sabotaging behaviors as a way to cope with their internal struggles.
How do covert narcissists maintain relationships?
Covert narcissists excel at maintaining relationships by employing strategies like people-pleasing, emotional blackmail, and clinging. However, their partners may only realize the missing elements in the relationship after a breakup or dissolution, as the covert narcissist's behavior may seem disconnected from their true self.
What happens when covert narcissists are rejected?
When rejected, covert narcissists may transition into primary psychopaths, creating fictional characters to achieve their goals. This behavior stems from their lack of true self and inability to cope with rejection, leading to a cycle of giving everything away while struggling to assert themselves.
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