12 Favorite Phrases of Female Covert Narcissists
Lise Leblanc・2 minutes read
Identifying covert narcissists involves recognizing patterns of manipulative behaviors like gaslighting, control, and shifting blame, rather than focusing on isolated incidents. Look for phrases like "You're just trying to start an argument" or "I was just kidding" as red flags for maintaining dominance and controlling partners.
Insights
- Lisa Block highlights the importance of recognizing patterns of behavior over isolated incidents when identifying narcissistic traits in ex-partners, emphasizing the need to look for consistent signs of disrespect, control, and manipulation.
- Covert narcissists employ subtle tactics like gaslighting and using phrases to maintain dominance, control, and manipulate partners' emotions, such as shifting blame, avoiding responsibility, and instilling self-doubt through comparisons and unrealistic standards.
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Recent questions
How can I identify covert narcissism in a partner?
Look for patterns of disrespect, lack of empathy, and control.
What tactics do covert narcissists use to manipulate their partners?
They use phrases like "I was just kidding."
How do covert narcissists deflect blame in relationships?
By accusing partners of being insecure or jealous.
What phrases do covert narcissists use to maintain control?
"You never put me as a priority."
How do covert narcissists dominate their partners?
By using phrases like "You're just trying to start an argument."