They’ve Pulled Away?? AVOID THIS MISTAKE
Matthew Hussey・12 minutes read
A woman leaves a marriage for passionate love but faces fading interest due to overvaluing, overgiving, and exerting control. Suggestions include valuing appropriately, giving in moderation, and asserting boundaries wisely.
Insights
- Overvaluing chemistry in a relationship can lead to neglecting other crucial aspects, potentially causing imbalance and dissatisfaction.
- Giving too much or exerting control in a relationship can diminish one's perceived value and lead to undesirable outcomes, emphasizing the importance of balance and appropriate boundaries in interactions.
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How can chemistry impact a relationship?
Chemistry can lead to neglecting other relationship aspects.
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Summary
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"Breaking Free, Chemistry Fades: Relationship Dynamics"
- Story of a woman leaving a passionless marriage after 5 years, then meeting a man with intense chemistry.
- Woman's increased efforts in the new relationship led to the man's fading interest.
- She tried to assert a boundary when he hung out with another woman, but he resisted.
- The three-part pattern in such situations: overvaluing, giving too much, and exerting control.
- Overvaluing chemistry can lead to neglecting other important relationship aspects.
- Giving excessively based on perceived importance can lower one's value in the other's eyes.
- Exerting control in desperation can backfire, showing lack of leverage.
- Suggestions on how to reverse the pattern: value appropriately, give in accordance with investment, and make asks when leverage is present.
