The Three Steps of Letting Go, with Tara Brach

Tara Brach28 minutes read

Living fully in the present moment and letting go of desires and fears is essential for embracing life fully, as highlighted through various stories and examples, ultimately leading to a deeper sense of presence and peace. The practice of letting go involves acknowledging recurring reactivity, releasing expectations, and connecting with love through mindfulness and meditation, emphasizing acceptance of life as it is.

Insights

  • True enlightenment is found in the present moment, not in reaching the summit of a mountain, as illustrated by the monk who chose to care for his injured friend instead of continuing alone.
  • Letting go of desires, fears, and the ego's need for control is essential for embracing life fully, leading to peace and presence through a practice of acknowledging, releasing, and holding with compassion.

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Recent questions

  • How can one achieve true presence in the moment?

    By letting go of barriers and embracing life fully.

  • What are the benefits of letting go in daily life?

    To avoid excessive suffering and deepen presence.

  • How does letting go contribute to inner peace?

    By varying levels of peace attained through releasing.

  • How can letting go help in healing relationships?

    By acknowledging recurring reactivity and releasing expectations.

  • How can letting go lead to a deeper sense of awareness?

    By connecting with love and embracing life fully.

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Summary

00:00

"Letting Go: Embracing True Presence in Life"

  • Two monks were eager to meet the Buddha at the top of a mountain by sunrise, but one fell and broke his leg halfway up.
  • The monk had to decide whether to continue alone or help his friend down, choosing to stay and care for him.
  • The realization dawned that true presence in the moment is where enlightenment resides, not in reaching the mountain top.
  • Living fully in the present moment is akin to starting a new life, recognizing the preciousness of each moment.
  • Letting go of barriers to open-hearted presence is essential for embracing life fully.
  • Thai master Ajahn Cha describes varying levels of peace attained through letting go, from a little to absolute peace.
  • Holding onto desires and fears prevents us from being present, akin to a monkey trap holding onto rice.
  • The ego's need for control and resistance to reality leads to suffering and blocks true presence.
  • Letting go is not an action but an undoing, releasing tension and opening up to the moment.
  • The process of letting go involves recognizing, releasing, and holding with compassion, a practice honed through meditation.

20:22

"Embracing Release: The Power of Letting Go"

  • Letting go is crucial to avoid excessive suffering, especially in the context of Buddhist conferences.
  • The first step in letting go involves releasing thoughts and inner dialogue.
  • The second step is to open up to the present moment and feelings in the body without resistance.
  • Mindfulness training helps in accepting and allowing what arises without trying to control or push it away.
  • Meditation aids in connecting with love, facilitating a deeper release and letting go.
  • A story is shared about healing family schisms through the process of letting go and reconnecting.
  • A client's journey of letting go and reconciling with his sister after years of estrangement is detailed.
  • The practice of letting go involves acknowledging recurring reactivity and releasing expectations.
  • Examples of applying the practice of letting go in daily life, such as during kayaking and meditation, are shared.
  • Letting go is emphasized as an ongoing life practice that leads to a deeper sense of presence and peace.

42:30

"Embrace life, surrender to love and awareness"

  • Emphasizes the importance of accepting life as it is, being present with the changing flow of life, surrendering to reality, letting go of blockages, and embracing love and awareness.
  • Encourages connecting with a background stillness and formless loving awareness, one's true home, by taking full breaths, opening eyes to sense surroundings and body, and carrying the experience of inner freedom forward.
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