Parenting teens:We're making it harder than it needs to be | Dr. Cameron Caswell | TEDxDeerParkWomen
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The text emphasizes the importance of choosing connection over blame and shame in parent-teen interactions by discussing obstacles such as beliefs, assumptions, and approach. Negative beliefs and unfair assumptions about teens can hinder understanding their needs and impact their self-perception, highlighting the significance of a positive approach for better communication and support.
Insights
- Choosing connection over blame and shame is crucial in parent-teen interactions, as seen when the narrator shifted their approach towards helping their daughter after initially feeling angry and frustrated.
- The text emphasizes the significance of addressing negative beliefs, unfair assumptions, and adopting a positive approach when connecting with teens, as these factors greatly influence communication and support in parent-teen relationships.
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Summary
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"Choosing Connection Over Blame with Teens"
- The narrator received an email from a teacher about their daughter neglecting an assignment, leading to feelings of anger and frustration.
- The narrator confronted their daughter, but upon seeing her tears, decided to change their approach and asked, "How can I help?"
- The story highlights the importance of choosing connection over blame and shame in parent-teen interactions.
- The text discusses three obstacles in connecting with teens: beliefs, assumptions, and approach.
- Negative beliefs about teens can lead to missed positive behaviors and impact their self-perception.
- Assumptions about teens can be unfair and hinder understanding their needs, while a positive approach can lead to better communication and support.
