How to BE A MAN: essential and performative masculinity
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Dr. Orion Taraban explores the modern identity crisis in men, emphasizing that true masculinity is not about external actions or appearances, but about having the courage to stand up for one's beliefs and values. He believes being a man involves having a figurative spine to stand up for what you believe in and a pair of figurative balls to face risks and consequences.
Insights
- The modern identity crisis in men is rooted in the performative nature of masculinity and femininity, shaped by specific contexts, as discussed by Dr. Orion Taraban.
- Dr. Taraban emphasizes that true masculinity is not about external actions like growing a beard or lifting weights; instead, it is defined by having the courage to stand up for one's beliefs, requiring a figurative spine and a pair of figurative balls to face risks and opposition.
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What is performative masculinity?
It refers to actions or behaviors that demonstrate traditional male traits.
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Summary
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"Defining Masculinity: Spine and Balls"
- Dr. Orion Taraban discusses the modern identity crisis in men, highlighting the performative nature of masculinity and femininity, which are expressions of specific times and places.
- Many online responses to the question of how to be a man focus on performative masculinity, suggesting actions like growing a beard, lifting heavy objects, or learning specific skills.
- Dr. Taraban offers a different perspective, stating that being a man is simple and requires having a figurative spine and a pair of figurative balls, emphasizing standing up for one's beliefs and being willing to face risks.
- Having a spine means standing up for what you believe in, knowing your values, and attracting opposition, while having a pair of balls involves being willing to face risks and consequences for your beliefs.
- Dr. Taraban concludes that being a man is not about external actions or appearances, but about having the courage to stand up for your beliefs and values, emphasizing the importance of having a spine and a pair of balls.
